Two more deaths of people really close to us, along with ulterior sickness and drama in the family, sent me (and actually both of us) into a zombie kind of state of paralysis for a while. But, life doesn't stand still, and we tag along.
In summary:
- I like San Diego more and more. We've started looking at some options we might have when we decide to move (i.e. when I finish my thesis), and it already pains me to think that I'm going to be leaving San Diego in a couple of years. I've come to learn that there are lots of things to do here, and that this place is only as boring as you make it.
- In the realm of the outdoors, there are plenty of things to do within the city boundaries already, on the beach or the bay or the countless green (or not so green) areas. If one feels like going further, there's up the coast through the pleasant beach towns of Delmar, Carlsbad, Solana Beach, Dana Point, Newport Beach, or down the coast to Baja Mexico, out to the island of Catalina, into the desert or up to the mountains. I even discovered this year that only an hour and a half's drive from here they get seasons with snowfall (up in for instance Idyllwild).
- As for indoors, there's actually no lack either. We're blessed here with a symphony, an opera and a ballet company, world class theatres, including the La Jolla Playhouse and the Old Globe, but also tons of smaller theatres. Here on (UCSD) campus we get excellent artists performing at the Mandeville Center, dance groups, string quartets, world music, etc. And for pop music there's many great venues, like Humphrey's on the Bay, and the Embarcadero in summer. And although I rant about not having a movie theatre in Pacific Beach itself, there are two theatres in La Jolla, one in Clairmont (just up the street), and in San Diego in total actually two independent movie theatres that play loads of interesting movies all year round, and there's occasionally film festivals. There's also the outdoors one in Hillcrest, Cinema under the Stars, and a couple of drive-ins in the nearby communities of Santee and Imperial Beach. There's a wealth of museums and parks, for entertainment, and that is not taking into account the fact that we are after all only one and a half hours drive from L.A. (should I ever want to check out the culture up there!) There's also no lack of restaurants and there are restaurant weeks twice a year. What was I ever complaining about in the first place ...?
- San Diego is pretty, pretty, pretty, all year round. It doesn't cease to amaze me how lush it is and trees and the strips along the highways bloom with flowers through all seasons.
- I really like my house. It's small, and it feels basic, after all it's "just a beach house", really! But, it's cozy, and cute and it's just so awesome to be able to step out on the porch in the morning and take in another beautiful day, and to be only 50 yards from the bay, another endless source of stunning beauty and peace.
- Even Pacific Beach has grown on me. Sure, it's a little rowdy. But it's fun and lively, great for people watching, and we have the bay, the boardwalk, Belmont Park, the beach and we even have some quaintness, in this mix of old and new.
- The weather here is great. So what if I said it was boring. It's never too cold and never too hot (except for the occasional day.) And it's sunny most of the time. One can't really say the weather get's in your way here. So, it's just confortable and convenient all the time!
- I love my "job", as a grad student. The people in my group are all so nice, and my advisor is a dream. Sure, it's frustrating some times, but that's an unavoidable part of doing this kind of research.
- I really like having people visit. We've had a few visits now, I really wouldn't mind having more, and each time we have people visit it reinforces my liking the place we live in.
- Oh, and my hubby's an angel. I can't tell myself enough how lucky I am ...